• paddirn@lemmy.world
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    4 months ago

    Yeah, but are they paying any of their own money to take care of those kids for two decades? As a parent, I’m involved in my kids’ lives on a daily basis and I’ve been given an additional set of legal responsibilities & obligations. Society expects more from me in order to raise my kids (though I did willingly take that on by becoming a parent). You raise a good point though that further muddies the idea, what about legal guardians or adults who help out kids, who decides who gets that extra voting power? And then with delinquent parents, why should they be entitled to more voting power? It also further disenfranchises the LGBTQ+ community as well, so yeah, it’s just fraught with way too many issues.

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      You said it yourself and it’s very fucking simple:

      You shoveled shit on yourself (had kids), so fucking deal with it.

      That’s the end. There’s no caveats.

      Your knowledge and beliefs sound lofty at best.

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        :: cough :: Might I point out, now more than ever, there are those who didn’t choose to become a parent?

        Fuck yeah they should get something for it. Whether it’s votes, ice cream, or some sort of UBI… they deserve something.

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          Lmfao it doesn’t just goddamn happen unless you were raped, which is an obvious tragedy and whole legal issue with its own set of concerns.

          Being unprepared to deal with the reality of poor choices isn’t the same as something just fucking happening like you wish you described, but did not.

          What cartoon character is on the other end of this keyboard lol I’m actually curious and concerned. I hope you don’t drive.

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            Being unprepared to deal with the reality of poor choices

            Is a reflection of how a better society would help people avoid such mistakes. Saying that someone messed up due to ignorance and now has to pay the price is victim blaming. Look at the root causes.

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              So where does one’s responsibility for our actions end if it doesn’t include sexual activity? Lol

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            Duh, i was talking about people being raped, and the fact that the us is in the midst of banning abortion all over the place. But I guess you didn’t want to consider that and rail into me as if I was some dumbass. Good for you. Go have a cookie and feel smug with yourself.

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      As you said, you took on the responsibility and obligations of parenthood when you chose to have children. Part of that is considering their interests when exercising your vote. While I don’t have children, I don’t agree that you have more skin in the game as you put it, than I do. I, as a human being and citizen of this country, want to see it succeed and flourish not only now, but long after I am gone, for generations to come. My family, friends and loved ones are all considerations when voting, as well as what I think will be best for society as a whole. It’s why when local votes come up for school funding, I always vote in favor of increases, despite having no children of my own benefitting from it.

      Every adult makes life choices, and has various considerations for how they think the world should be, and what will improve it. The personal decisions you make and how you live your life should not afford you more or less votes than anyone else.

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      What difference does the money make? Does you paying to feed your kids mean you love them more than their grandparents and want them to be successful more than their grandparents?

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      Yeah, but are they paying any of their own money to take care of those kids for two decades?

      Yes. Taxes. People without kids still pay taxes for things like education, meal programs, etc. People with kids get a tax break to compensate for the cost of raising kids. You’re asking for something already built into how we support parents and children in America.

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      You also appear to be under the misconception that parents will automatically vote in the best interests of their children. Some may, but not all. It also pressures people to produce children needlessly in order to have more personal electoral power, which will result in a baby boom the likes of which hasn’t been seen since the end of WW2 - and back then, the US had a dominant economic position where there were more resources available to support these children.

      I feel that you might be trying to argue your position in good faith. However, giving parents more rights to vote because they have children is a terrible idea. It will be exploited mercilessly by bad faith actors. Hell, the USA should be rewarding parents who choose to have fewer(2 or less) children, or those who choose not to have kids. This planet is already too overcrowded.

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      The only way this idea makes any sense is to allow the children to vote for themselves not to give a parent extra votes. You might argue that children are uninformed and won’t vote ‘correctly’, but that same argument can be applied to the parents as being informed isn’t a requirement to vote.

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        Good point. I’m sure there are plenty of kids I would rather were able to vote than their parents.